sigh...

When you have been hurt too much, you also end up hurting people that matters to you. You push people away from you because you don't like to be hurt again so you try to protect yourself and think that it is better to be alone and shield myself than to be with someone and get hurt again... Pretty crazy thought isn't it? You only show very few people the real you. Because you are so afraid. Don't be. You will never be happy if you keep on doing that. 

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Comments (6)

  1. noahbody

    August 13, 2017
    1. haydeeandgabriel

      August 13, 2017
  2. Walkaboutman

    I did that. I kept doing it to my girlfriend as i didnt believe i should be happy. I realised this as she told me, i worked on it, got through it and ended up marrying her, still together.

    August 13, 2017
    1. haydeeandgabriel

      oh wow… that is a very inspiring story. thank you for sharing it…this guy that i like said that to me also..and i am still working on it…

      August 14, 2017
  3. Walkaboutman

    It takes a bit of time. It was like when ever i became happy, i felt i didn’t deserve it and i would shut down. I was going through seperation from my children at the time and i was in a mess of pain.

    But,i got through it when i accepted the love this woman had for me. I stopped giving her “chances” to save herself and leave me. I stopped fighting,accepted what i can and can not do and embraced life again.

    I was once in a very dark place. You too can find your way past this, step into the sunlight and let it warm through your body and reach into your soul. Make a decision to change, plant the seed, then water it daily within,it will grow into a sturdy tree that will withstand the mightiest of storms.

    August 14, 2017
    1. haydeeandgabriel

      Thank you…. that is a very good advice. I will try I promise…

      August 14, 2017